Whatever Happens, Happens for good !!!

_smiling2I know many of you will not approve of this statement. Even I thought the same, What could be so good when those Dreadful terrorists attacked ‘Taj’? At Least we got to know The  True Image of our so called ‘Politicians’. The strength of our Army and Police who were always considered as Corrupt. The Pain we all felt, when we saw Our Grand Taj burning, which made us realize that we are one family. The wounds that gave us the strength to fight against the ‘Terror Masters’. It was a True Eye Opener for all of us. Wasn’t it? The reason why I m writing all this is that” Life treats you harshly to make you a better person”.  Imagine a life with no hassles, no troubles would you really enjoy it? Will there be any curiosity to live in people? The answer is no. So whenever things go wrong, when you feel you are surrounded by so many problems, always remember God is watching over you, He wants you to have something better than you desire. I am not saying it because I read it somewhere but  because I also went through the same.

After my Graduation, I was so confused what to opt for. Whether to work or study? Finally I thought I would work and study via ‘Distance Education’. I went to give an interview in a Leading Multi-National-Corporation and after answering so many hardcore questions I was selected :-) Wow! man what else I could ask for, no longer pleading mom to give me a little extra pocket-money, Total independence and along with all this I could do my Masters too. I was now just waiting for my joining date. Then one day I don’t know what happened  I heard my mother crying on the phone. I ran to ask what had happened, she said that there was Great Recession and my so called Company could not hire me before things get normal. It was too late to even fill up a form and join a college. I cursed myself for taking such a decision,  mostly all of my friends were settled with their new jobs or courses, which made me all the more sad. I opened the newspaper searching all kinds of jobs, but all in vain :(

One day I got a interview call from some institution who required a Counselor. The lady on phone sounded as worried as I was. I rushed to the place without any thought. The salary was not that high, I could just tightly manage in it but I agreed :( Everyday I convinced people how good this institution was, it could really help them to improve their careers. The things strained up when I was teaching the course as well counseling people and managing the whole office and still I was hearing the same thing “Put extra efforts” :( One day when things went beyond my patience, I decided to quit. I  called up my mom, she was very supportive and I left that institute. I was still in a fix deciding what to do, then my door-bell rand. I saw all my students and was shocked, they left that institution and wanted me to teach them. I was so happy to see that finally I got the credit for my struggle, That’s how my institution “THE PERSONALITY MAKERS” came to existence. :-)

Just remember “AFTER EVERY SAD DAY COMES GLAD DAY”, all you have to do is keep believing in yourself and God. :-)

“The Beginning…..”

I never knew what I wanted to be…..My friends said Engineering and Computers etc etc were the most promising careers but I was never interested in machines,I wanted to be someone who could add smile on every face I met…..and i found a prefect answer to my question “PSYCHOLOGY”…that’s what I wanted to help people, explore them… know more about their problems…and help them to solve it.

In the start it sounded weird to my mom but when she saw my great interest in it, she allowed me to be a part of it….That’s how my Journey began…..I lived my Dream everyday. Whenever any of my friend came to me with Tearful eyes, I promised myself that i have to make them Cheerful again. Its very hard to understand the Innermost Feelings of a person as we Hardly Express them…

Each one of us have learned how to hide our inner self from the world…We all wear the so called “SOCIAL MASKS” . Behind these Masks are the True us which we Never Reveal…..I promised Myself not to “Judge any Book from its Cover”…..unless I get to know its “Contents”. I may sound Weird but, I know some part of it is True. I m here to “Reveal my True Self”……What About You ??

Hello All !! Welcome to my blog!!

Hi I am Tanya….

WELCOME TO MY WORLD !!!

Thanks to my brother-in-law who introduced me to this blogging world and hey its fun. This is my first introduction with the world…. I am here to Learn,Share and Explore Knowledge. I am a fun loving person, who believes in filling life in every moment. I am a extrovert to the core, a great music lover and a big chatterbox.

My friends call me a problem-solver,whenever any of them confides in me with a problem, I make sure that they walk out with a solution. It gives me immense pleasure to help people and putting back the smile on their sad faces. I follow my own rules and don’t compromise on my principles.

My mantra for life is “BE POSITIVE AND LOVE YOURSELF BECAUSE YOU ARE A BEAUTIFUL CREATION OF ALMIGHTY.”

That’s All ….

“Take care And Keep smiling”